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Divorce
Annulment
& Legal Separation
Spousal
Support
Child
Support
Child
Custody & Visitation
Paternity
Modification
of an Order
Division
of Assets and Debts
The
Legal Process
Do
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Divorce
Divorce
in California is technically called dissolution of marriage. One
spouse must have lived in California for at least six months to file in
California, and lived in your county for three months, to file in that
specific county.
There
are only two grounds for dissolution in California: 1) irreconcilable
differences, or 2) incurable insanity. Adultry is not grounds for
dissolution. However, adultry probably constitutes irreconcilable
differences.
California
law requires a six-month minimum waiting period from the time the other
party is properly served before the dissolution can be final. You
cannot remarry until the day after your divorce is final. You can
obtain a dissolution of marriage without your spouse's consent.
You can also obtain a dissolution before the financial issues are
resolved, which means you can remarry even though the financial issues
aren't resolved yet.
Your
case must be filed in the proper location (jurisdiction), depending on
the area in which you live. San Diego county has four
jurisdictions: 1) downtown, 2) Chula Vista, 3) El Cajon, and 4) Vista.
There
are two types of dissolution in California:
1)
Summary Dissolution. This is a more simplified process than
Regular Dissolution, and is therefore, easier and less expensive to
facilitate. To qualify for this type of dissolution the following
conditions must be met: a) married for five years or less, b)
there are no children from this relationship, c) neither of you own a
home or other real estate, d) the value of all community property assets
is less than $25,000, e) your combined debt does not exceed $5,000, and
f) both parties waive spousal support. Both parties must agree to
the terms of the dissolution. The downside is that either party
may cancel the dissolution without your consent, for any reason before
it's final.
2)
Regular Dissolution. This is a more complicated process than
Summary Dissolution, and is therefore, more complicated and expensive to
facilitate. All dissolutions that don't qualify for Summary
Dissolution must be filed as a Regular Dissolution. You might also
choose to file a Regular Dissolution if you're concerned that your
spouse might cancel the dissolution. Your spouse cannot cancel
this dissolution without your consent.
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Annulment
and Legal Separation
You
can get an Annulment or Legal Separation even if you haven't lived in
California for six months or your county for three months before filing.
An
annulment essentially means your marriage never existed. There are
only a few grounds that qualify for an annulment: 1) incest, 2)
bigamy, 3) under the age of 18, 4) prior existing marriage, 5) mental
incapacity, 6) fraud, 7) force, and 8) physical incapacity, with certain
exceptions.
Sometimes
legal separation is preferred to dissolution. You can still obtain
a court order regarding custody, visitation, support, and assets/debts,
similar to what occurs in a dissolution.
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Spousal
Support
Spousal
support is the technical word for alimony in California. The court
may order that one spouse pay the other support for a certain period of
time. The general rule of thumb is that if the marriage was 10
years or more in duration, the receiving spouse may receive support for
an indefinite period of time, until death or remarriage. If the
marriage was less than 10 years, the receiving spouse may receive
support for half the length of the marriage, or until death or
remarriage. This isn't always necessarily the case though.
To
determine whether support will be awarded and how much the award will
be, the judge will consider factors such as the standard of living
during the marriage, the length of the marriage, the age, health,
incomes, and earning capacities of both spouses.
The
receiving spouse will pay income taxes on the support received and the
paying spouse is entitled to a tax deduction for the support paid.
Any
support order or non-support order can be modified down the road if
circumstances change, provided that the court reserves jurisdiction over
the issue. The receiving spouse can also obtain a wage assignment
(wage garnishment) directly from the paying spouse's employer.
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Child
Support
Both
parents are both responsible for supporting the children until they
reach the age of 18 or 19 if they're still in high school. The
amount of support is based on established guidelines. The court
typically uses a computer program to determine the amount of support,
based on certain factors such as each parent's income, expenses, and the
amount of time parent has with the children.
The
receiving parent does not report it as income for tax purposes, and the
paying parent is not entitled to a tax deduction. The receiving
spouse can obtain a wage assignment (wage garnishment) directly from the
paying spouse's employer.
Additionally,
both parents are typically equally responsible for uninsured medical,
dental, and child care expenses.
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Child
Custody & Visitation
The
easiest and most effective and way to resolve custody/visitation issues
is for both parents to reach an agreement on a parenting plan. The
judge will usually accept such a plan and will make it a court order.
If you're having difficulty reaching an agreement, it's a good idea to
utilize the court mediation process, whereby a neutral mediator will
assist the parents in creating such a plan. Preferably, the
parents will reach an agreement. If they cannot, the mediator will
determine what's in the best interest of the child and will make a
recommendation to the judge. The recommendation isn't necessarily
binding, but the judge will usually defer to it and will ultimately make
a decision regarding custody and visitation for you.
The
judge may give sole physical and/or legal custody to one parent, or
joint physical and/or legal custody to both parents. In some cases
the judge may even give custody to someone else if it's in the best
interest of the child. The judge will consider factors such as the
child's health, safety and welfare, and any history of abuse.
Sole
physical custody means the children live with one parent and have
visitation with the other parent. Joint physical custody means the
children live with both parents on a regular basis. However, it
doesn't necessarily have to be an equal amount of time.
Sole
legal custody means one parent has the right to make decisions regarding
the health, education, and welfare of the children. Joint legal
custody means both parents have the right to make such decisions
jointly.
The
judge will consider the child's wishes if the child is of sufficient age
and capacity, but the judge is not required to follow the child's
wishes.
The
judge may order supervised visitation with one parent if necessary to
protect the child. The judge may also give stepparents and
grandparents visitation in certain circumstances. The mediator may
also meet with the child during the mediation process as well.
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Paternity You
may request a paternity test to determine who the father of the child
is. Paternity determination is required in order to receive an
order for child support.
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Modification
of an Order
You
may request a modification of a existing custody, visitation, or support
order when there is a change of circumstances that would warrant such a
modification.
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Division
of Assets and Debts
California
is a community property state, which means that assets/debts acquired
during the marriage are community property, with certain exceptions,
such as student loans, which are separate property. This means
each spouse owns half the asset or is responsible for half the debt,
regardless of whose name it's in, unless you agree to an unequal
division.
Assets
and debts acquired before the marriage, after the date of separation, or
by gift or inheritance are separate property, with certain exceptions.
Separate property is not divided in a dissolution. It remains the
property of the spouse who acquired it.
It
can be complicated to identify separate property when it has been mixed
with community property. However, using complex tracing
requirements you could be entitled to receive your separate property
back even if it has been mixed. You should consult an attorney for
advice in this regard.
Debts incurred before your marriage or after the date of separation are
considered your separate property debts and your spouse is not liable
for them, with certain exceptions.
It's
best if you and your spouse can agree on the division of assets and
debts, but if you cannot, the judge will make the decision for you.
It's important to realize that even if your spouse agrees to pay a
community property debt but then fails to pay, you may still be liable
to the creditor. Division of assets and debts can be complicated.
You should obtain advice from a lawyer before entering into any
agreement.
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The
Legal Process
Once
your case is filed there are several events that may or may not occur,
as follows:
1)
Default: If your spouse fails to file a Response in the case, you
may request a default and the court will proceed without them to issue a
judgment.
2)
Temporary Orders: Either party can request a hearing to obtain
temporary orders for child custody, visitation, support or restraining
order disputes. These hearings are called Order to Show Cause hearings.
The temporary orders may or may not become permanent.
3)
Agreement: The parties and their attorney (if any) will attempt to
permanently resolve the issues and reach an agreement. If you
reach an agreement, you probably won't have to appear in court and the
judge will issue an order based on your agreement.
4)
Trial: If the parties cannot reach an agreement, you and your
spouse will go through a trial.
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Do
I need a lawyer?
The
process of obtaining a dissolution of marriage, determining the division
of assets/debts, and determining support and custody issues can be very
complex. An attorney can help ensure your rights are protected, as
well as properly guide you through the process itself. Your spouse
may need an attorney also if the case is complicated.
One
alternative to hiring a lawyer to assist you with all stages of your
case, is to hire one for only particular stages of your case. This
will result in limited fees.
Another
option, if you and your spouse can agree on the terms of the
dissolution, is to hire only one lawyer who will prepare all the
documents for both parties. The lawyer can legally only represent
one party, but they will draft the documents with any terms you request,
so there is no need for the other party to have an attorney if you can
agree on the terms. You will likely avoid having to appear in
court if you can agree. This will also be less expensive than both
parties retaining an attorney.
You
may also act as your own attorney (i.e., acting In Pro Per) and handle
the entire case yourself. Be aware that even if your case is
simple you could accidentally make serious mistakes. The law and
the court has strict requirements and ignorance could cause expensive
problems and/or delays in your case.
If
you simply cannot afford an attorney you might want to consider hiring
an attorney to simply coach you in handling your case yourself.
Our firm even offers inexpensive do-it-yourself
telephone assistance.
One
thing to keep in mind is that sometimes the court will order your spouse
to pay your attorney fees if they have more resources than you.
The
final alternative is independent mediation, whereby you and your spouse
can negotiate a resolution with a neutral third-party outside of court.
This will result in a legally binding Judgment of Dissolution. It's
still a good idea to hire an attorney to advise you of your rights
during this process though.
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